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"miss" behavior, not "misbehavior"

April 15, 2009 by  
Filed under Parenting From BalanceĀ©

Every misbehavior is a symptom of a need that is unmet, or “missed.”

In the words of Ruth Beaglehole, CNVEP, “Every behavior is a tragic attempt to meet an unmet need… tragic because the behavior in question will NOT result in the need being met.”

It is our challenge, every time our child “miss” behaves, to determine what that unmet need is, and then help them to find a behavior that meets that need, rather than misses it!

Lots of Love,
Linda Shannon

Riviera PlaySchool, a Redondo Beach preschool for attachment parents


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