Parenting From Balance©
“miss” behavior, not misbehavior
Every misbehavior is a symptom of a need that is unmet, or “missed.” Every ‘miss’ behavior is a tragic attempt to meet an unmet need… tragic because the behavior in question will NOT result in the need being met. It is our challenge, every time our child ‘miss’ behaves, to determine what that unmet need is,... [Read more of this review]
mentoring versus modeling (living versus acting)
We want the best for our children. As parents, we want them to develop relationships and form connections with others. We want our children to come down from their egocentric mountain and join society as productive, empathetic citizens, (and with their own unique gifts intact.) That’s why we often worry so much about behavior.
And we often hear... [Read more of this review]
Taking a Step Back….
I think I am pretty clear about how I regard my children: I know that they are not simply shiny little reflections of myself. And even so, every once in a while I get tricked into that lie again! It sneaks in like a sneeze, and I spring into RE-action, rather than mindful response. That way of “reflective” thinking is a trap that... [Read more of this review]
NOW ENROLLING FOR SUMMER CAMP
NOW ENROLLING FOR OUR SUMMER CAMP SESSION!!
Space is limited to keep ratios low and the feeling peaceful and fun.
Summer at PlaySchool is special: it’s full of water plans and mud pies, animals and insects, hiking and crafts, and community salads from our edible classroom of apples, plums, bananas, cucumbers, tomatoes, mint…... [Read more of this review]
Men Should Not Cry (What are You Living Toward?)
It is not important to wonder whether or not we have biases…we all have them. It’s a given. What IS important is to acknowledge and understand which biases we do have, so we can start to break them down, to “deconstruct” and pull their tangled webbing from every section of our life, so we can eliminate them from our speech,... [Read more of this review]
OmmmmmMy God! Compassion is a Two Way Street!
You Can Reach Enlightenment in 1 Easy Science-backed Step!
I have been waiting for this one!! Science now has documented evidence that anyone CAN reach enlightenment, (or at least find peace, joy, or satisfaction) in one easy step!
I am tossing out my meditation beads!! They have found the holy grail! Recent studies have shown that a very specific region... [Read more of this review]
When a Parent’s ‘I Love You’ Means ‘Do as I Say’
I love Alfie Kohn. Here is an article he wrote about unconditional love….
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Lots of Love,
Riviera PlaySchool, a Redondo Beach preschool for attachment parents
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Are You Listening…?
I have been putting my attention on listening lately.
I was thinking about a conflict the other day that involved my son and myself. I realized that ‘conflict resolution,’ per se, doesn’t truly exist when the conflict is between the two of us. And that is because I have an agenda. You see, I think I know the better way, the better... [Read more of this review]
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